Safer Sex Menu

Light Fare

Talking to each other about safer sex

Kissing and hugging

Back rubs, foot rubs, & body rubs while partially dressed

Listening to music and/or dancing together

Playing strip poker or spin-the-bottle

Stroking, brushing, or playing with each other's hair

Caressing, tickling, pinching, & nibbling each other through clothes

Reading erotic literature together

Looking at erotic pictures together

Watching erotic movies on the VCR

Talking sexy or fantasies

Dry humping

Showering together

Kissing or licking or fondling (except for genitals or anus)

Undressing each other or watching each other undress

Rubbing any nonpetroleum-based body oil or lotion on each other or yourself

Entrees

Petting with no clothes on

Stroking, caressing, & fondling (including genitals and anus)

Mutual or simultaneous masturbation to orgasm with your hands (with or without condoms, with no exchange of semen or vaginal fluids)

Mutual or simultaneous masturbation with a vibrator (no sharing!)

Rubbing your penis against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body, between the breasts, lower thighs or buttocks, making sure not to ejaculate in or on your partner's body orifices

Rubbing your vulva against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body, avoiding contact with your partner's body orifices

Oral sex (fellatio) while wearing a condom

Vaginal or anal penetration with a sex toy (no sharing!)

Desserts

Licking whipped cream or flavored nonpetroleum-based oil off your partner's body, except for unprotected body openings

Masturbating while your partner watches or holds you

Bodypainting with nonpetroleum-based body paints

Eating breakfast, lunch, or dinner in bed

Holding each other

Sleeping together

Starting over